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Reproduced from The Express 2 December, 1997
I require £100,000 a month to pay the rent. Keith needs
£30,000 a year
The true test of friendship is when differences outweigh the
similarities. The 50-year bond between mega-wealthy pop mogul Pete
Waterman and Keith Jackson, a machine tool designer in Coventry, bridges
the gap between contrasting lifestyles, writes GILL MARTIN
PETE'S STORY
WHEN you work in a factory, you have mates to talk to
every day, have a pint with in the evening, play a game of darts
once a week, go to football.
I haven't any mates so I don't do that. When I get back together
with Keith we talk about old times.
Keith's uncle Alec was the choirmaster of St Alban's Church. You
couldn't join the choir until you were seven. On my seventh
birthday, we instantly went into the choir. Keith wasn't seven
for a couple of weeks so got into the choir early, which I
thought was very unfair at the time.
Keuth never shared my love for trains but we were both keen on
speedway; Coventry City Football Club; music - we had a pop group
called Tomorrow's Kind at 13 - and girls. Mostly, we ended up
with the same girlfriends. I went out with his wife Diana before
he did. They have three children. I've been married three times
and have four children.
We always hung around together and we're the only two of our
group who have stayed friends. We were so close we didn't need
anybody else. Throughout our lives it's been the two of us. If
I haven't seen him for a long time, it's as if it were yesterday
when we see one another again.
Friendship is sometimes about opposites. I wake up in the
morning and I have to make £100,000 a month to pay the rent.
Keith wakes up and thinks he has to make &163;30,000 a year -
that's a week's wages for me.
His feet are very firmly on the ground. As long as he pays the
mortgage, the pension and and the bills he's very happy.
I know sometimes I have to invest in a new act. Maybe I'Il get
my money back. Maybe I'm going to make £20 million.
I like Keith's stability, his 25-year marriage, his three very
clever children who went to university. (I have two boys, Paul,
aged 28, and Peter, 15, and two girls, Toni, seven, and Charly,
five).
He plays golf and cooks. I can't stand golf - it's a waste of
a good walk. I don't envy his very nice, steady lifestyle. I
wouldn't want to swap with him because we're different characters
and I know I'd never be able to achieve it.
I have to find the next mountain to climb and if I fall off, I
have to try again until I reach the top. I'm never satisfied.
Keith and I have never argued. We've never fallen out over
anything. There are certain areas we leave alone, like religion.
I rebelled against it but he didn't and still goes to church.
Our wives have met. We've gone up for weekends, to Keith's 50th
birthday party and his daughter's wedding.
I never want him to be involved in anything to do with my work.
He is my refuge and sanctuary outside it.
If everything went wrong tomorrow I would still go to see Keith.
If he became a multimillionaire in three weeks because he
invented a machine tool that changed the world he wouldn't treat
me any differently.
There are few things I wouldn't tell him. But I never talked
about the time 20 years ago when I wanted to purge my soul and
do some backbreaking work as a coal miner. I went back to
Coventry because I wanted a better grasp on life.
I didn't talk to Keith because I wanted to suffer on my own. You
don't want to put anything depressing on your mate's plate.
That's probably why he didn't tell me he was suffering from a
brain tumour.
I called up to ask him to my last wedding, to Denise in 1990.
His wife said they'd try to make it but Keith had had a brain
tumour removed and was still poorly.
When I asked why they hadn't told me she said: "We didn't want
to worry you." If I'd known I would have dropped everything and
gone straight to see him but I don't know what I'd have done if
he'd died.
We have known a lot of our mates die, reaching 50 and having
heart attacks.
But death was always a long way off when we were kids. The sun
was always sunnier in 1953 and it never rained.
KEITH'S STORY
OUR FRIENDSHIP is based on our childhood. Our mums went
shopping together, they were always together. I called his mum
auntie and he called mine the same. The dads were Uncle Ron and
Uncle John.
Pete was like a brother. That's really the relationship we
have.
We'd spend hours in the record shop. I remember the first record
I bought was the Deadwood stage by Doris Day. Pete was into
Tommy Steele and Lornie Donegan I don't think I was particularly
impressed. I remember he bought one of the first vinyl LPs, Rock
With The Caveman.
When he became so big I felt it was, for some reason, difficult
to approach him. Perhaps it was the people around him trying to
protect him from the media or whatever. I used to phone him up
and get: "Pete'sin a meeting" or "Pete's out". But 30 seconds
or a minute later he'd be on the phone saying: "Hello Jacko".
I'm quite comfortable and happy with what I earn. It's not a
case of rich boy/poor boy but I suppose money can buy security
and things like private medical care.
I drive a Volvo and have nice holldeys in Britain and France.
He sometines seems too busy for holidays.
The only thing I envy about him is that he has written some music
that might become a standard and be around forever. Nothing I've
created will be around, unless someone digs up my tools in a few
hundred years.
He doesn't send me records - I don't know why. Sometimes I'd
like him to ask: "What do you think of this? Is this good?"
Pete's on a tightrope and could fall off at any minute, whereas
I am firmly on the ground with my life. I can relax and play
golf, whereas I don't think Pete can.
If I ever had a problem or if he had a big problem he could ring
me to discuss it and we condd help each other out. That bond is
there for ever.
Whenever he comes to Coventry. he'll ring out of the blue and
I'll cook him a meal, like Indian spiced chicken with onion,
tomato and cucumber sauce. Going out for a meal is a waste of
time, so he comes to our house. There's never any awkwardness
about money, about who would buy the first drink because we've
known each other so long.
I don't think we're different in character. We're both creative.
Our tastes in music are similar. He thinlcs we are opposites but
I don't think so. It's our lifestyles that are poles apart.
We've built up a strong relationship over 50 years. That's why
we've remained best friends.

Pete and Keith appear in Best Friends, screened on BBC2
tonight at 10.20
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